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Discover 3 techniques that project a sexy confidence. 6 “Older Guy” Tricks to Make a Younger Woman CHASE You. Rather than pushing her away, or even creeping her out.
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And what exactly gets a younger woman attracted to an older man? In this artcile, I’m going to give you five specific techniques that spark a younger woman’s interest, and keeps her chasing you… How to Deal with Younger Women. And a very large percent of guys who hire us for coaching, are in their 40s, 50s, and even their 60s.. And a lot of the time, these guys come to us, either chasing a younger woman, not knowing how to get her attracted or make her commit… Or, they come to us because they had a woman interested, it was going well, but then she suddenly lost attraction. So I want to give you five of the most important tips for dealing with a younger woman… 5 Ways “Older Guys” Can Spark attraction. So, I want to talk about five of ways that you can you can use you age to your advantage when talking to a younger woman. Now these are practical techniques you can test out tonight. Ok lets’ get into them. Trick #1: Project Certainty. So, the first is the attitude that you must absolutely display… If you get this wrong, everything else falls apart with her. As an older man, here is, not only one of the most attractive traits you can display, but the truth is, when you’re dealing with a younger woman, you MUST display it… And that is certainty. What is certainty? It’s a firm conviction that something is true. And what a girl really wants from you is certainty. That you’re her best possible choice. That where she is at is the best possible place to be. That being with you is the best possible decision she can make. Because SHE doesn’t know. She can’t make up her mind. And she doesn’t want the burden of making the decision. All women have something called “Make Up My Mind for Me Syndrome.” And it exists in ALL phases of the relationship. From the very first moment you approach her, to the very first time you go home with her, to the moment she’s blurting out “I love you?” She wants to be led. She wants to be told what to do. She wants to feel like she has no control over the outcome. Now, because I know “cancel culture” and people love to play “gotcha”… I want to be very clear, always respect a woman’s boundaries. Never make a woman feel uncomfortable… At the end of the day though, women, especially when it comes to dating an “older man”… Want a man who projects certainty and LEADS HER. Certainty at its core, is LACK OF DOUBT. You have no doubt the woman would be attracted to you, even if you’re older. There is no doubt she wants to kiss you. There is no doubt she wants to be your girlfriend. Compare THAT attitude to the typical attitude of the “Needy Older Guy.” The “needy older guy” is never certain. He constantly needs reassurance that she likes him. That he’s not making mistakes. He’s constantly second guessing himself that she would be into an older man… So, he doesn’t make a move. I can’t tell you how many older guys I’ve worked with, have hung out with a woman multiple times, where she’s practically throwing herself on him, but he just can’t pull the trigger and kiss her. He may lie to himself, and tell himself he’s being a gentleman or whatever. But women can pick up on this, she can tell when you’re unsure of yourself. And when you’re unsure of yourself, that makes her unsure of you. Not only that, but this neediness causes him to get CLINGY. Because he’s not certain if she likes him, he feels the need to text her all time for reassurance. Or he constantly wants to hang out with her just for reassurance that she’s not with someone else. Or like I said he doesn’t go for the kiss unless she’s practically holding up a sign that tells him to go for it. Girls pick up on this self doubt. And it’s extremely unattractive and actually creates a self fulfilling prophecy. Again, when it comes to dealing with a younger woman, she wants a leader, someone who takes charge. For example, Instead of asking a girl if you can have her number, tell her to give it to you. Hand her your phone and tell her to type it in. She’ll do it. When you ask a woman out, never say “What do you feel like doing” or “Where do you want to eat” Instead say, “I’ll pick you up at eight and we’re going to head to the race track. We’ll grab a bite there. Wear something cute and summery”. Be CERTAIN that the race track is the best possible place she can be. BANISH the doubt and insecurity from your mind. All those thoughts of “does she like me.” “Is the track a good place to take her?” “Should I try to kiss her later?” Eliminate them and replace them with CERTAINTY. Ok next tip for dealing with younger women… 5 Words That Turn Every Woman On Proven Formula for Passing Women’s “Tests” Say THIS to Make Her Fall in Love. Technique #2: Don’t Compliment Her or Give Your Approval too Soon. There is a dichotomy where some “older men” are seen as creepy guys chasing younger women… And other “older men” are seen as sexy, experienced guys where it’s natural for a younger woman to chase them… And it all comes down to positioning. A big mistake too many older guys make is they give out their approval too quickly hoping to get the girl to like them. And she will like you, as a friend. So, when you’re dealing with a younger woman… Listen to what she’s saying and be curious and validate what she’s saying. But this is important : Do not compliment her. Respond and ask her questions about it, even challenge her a bit. Like “that’s interesting, how did you figure that out” She should be validated by the curiosity you have about what she’s saying, or the attention you’re giving her when she’s telling you something. But the minute you start showering her with compliments, she STOPS WANTING your validation or approval. It’s a weird paradox. She doesn’t want some approval seeking “nice guy” who can’t stop telling her how awesome she is. But here’s the thing… Very few guys are genuinely curious about what she’s saying, very few guys really listen, or ask her to expand on something. Most guys just use what she’s saying as a reason to compliment her.
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